I know I’ve been gone from here for awhile and I want to first start off by apologizing because this is my first baby and I truly appreciate all of you that have read any blog posts I’ve ever made from 2016 to now, but life be lifing as I’m sure y’all know. I hope over these past few months that y’all have been able to keep your head up and continue pushing forward regardless of anything that’s going on around you.

I turned 26 on March 13th and in my 20’s here’s a few things I’ve learned in the last 25 years

Your twenties are confusing as hell, I feel like you’re constantly questioning are you doing things right or are you on the right path
It’s never too late to change anything about yourself, you can decide today that you want to change something and act on it immediately
Time is a mind thing, don’t put a shot clock on yourself that doesn’t even really exist
Live for yourself, don’t worry about what everybody else is doing
Its okay to give yourself grace (this is an everyday battle for me)
Its okay to change, you don’t have to be the same person you were a year ago, a week ago or even yesterday
Its on you to want better for yourself and actually act on it, you have to save yourself
Zoom out and see the bigger picture, because we are the main character of our lives its so easy to be so focused on every little detail but some things aren’t as big as they seem when you look at the bigger picture
You circumstance right now could literally change in the blink of an eye
Realize that you’re living some of the dreams you used to pray for and be grateful
Pour into yourself, changing your mood and working on your mental health can literally help clear the storm you may feel like you’re in
Don’t be afraid to go in a new direction. Its not about what anybody else thinks if you want to do it go for it.
This is your life, what anyone else thinks doesn’t matter at all don’t let your mind trick you
An idle mind will curate thoughts that aren’t even true, recognize what’s reality and your mind playing tricks on you
We’re young as hell have fun
Its okay to take a break when you need to
No one cares as much as you think they do about small irrelevant situations
Put your wants, needs and goals first because others will do the same for themselves
Don’t allow yourself or others convince you of what you can’t have or achieve
Sometimes people need to be cut off no matter the relationship you have or had with them or how long you’ve had it
YOLO, live It up!!!!
Stop comparing yourself and worrying about what everybody else is doing
You’re in your own lane, don’t swerve over
Life is about perspective
Take your goals seriously but don’t take yourself too seriously
Live it tf up!!!!!!!