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How to REALLY Change Your Mindset for the New Year.

January 1, 2020 ShaKayla Eaddy
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Every year everybody does the same song and dance with creating New Year’s Resolutions and then forgetting about them by the second week of January because they had no real focus or discipline and no proper planning. I want to be the first to tell you if nobody else has that nothing in the New Year will change if you still have the same mindset, ways and habits as the previous year. You won’t just change and accomplish all this stuff out of nowhere you have to actually have the mindset and work ethic that you want to really change your life, you want to accomplish new goals, you want to get to a new level, you want to do new things, you want to reach certain financial goals etc. Stop feeding yourself lies and things that sound good and get to work for real and take your life and growth more seriously.

You don’t have to wait until a New Year to decide that you want change and that you have goals that you want to reach, as soon as you get in the correct mindframe of wanting to get sh*t done then you will do just that but until then you’ll just be sitting writing down all of these goals that will never get accomplished. You need to change you mindset to have the work ethic to get things done, you have to change your mindset to put focus towards the goals you have set, you need to learn how to have discipline. Another way to get serious about the goals you want for the new year you have to make realistic goals, you have to know what you are capable of physically and mentally and start off with things within that, start small and then continue to get better. Also you don’t have to jump to the top, there is no elevator to the top you have to take the stairs so stop making vague goals like I want to be successful or the best like what does that even mean? You’re not going to wake up tomorrow and automatically wake up with Beyonce level success.

So when trying to create new goals for the New Year be realistic with yourself, learn discipline, get focused, you will have to make sacrifices, and make goals to please yourself not to please anybody else.

Tags new year, 2020, advice, ShaKayla Diamond, Stylish Life
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